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10 Minutes as Thelma Medici

Ton’s lovely description of the unexpected pleasure of being the only visitors at a museum sparked warm memories of my visit to the Bargello museum in Florence.

It had been a dream of mine to visit Florence ever since I took a Renaissance art history course at Mount Allison University, so when I did get there 15 years later, I wanted to see every piece of art in the city, which is a mighty tall order! I did very well, cramming pretty much everything I had wanted to see into the four days we had to explore.

My sister-in-law and her then-partner, who live in England, had both been there before and took a much more sensible and leisurely pace. Dear Steven stuck with me for the first two days, but after I inflicted both the Uffizi and the Pitti Palace on him on the second day, he cheerfully waved me off early on the third morning and met up with me later.

I’m grateful I kept a good journal of that trip, pasting in tickets and cards of places we visited. It’s only because of that foresight that I have a good record of the morning I was Thelma Medici:

Monday, November 3, 2003

Up early and off to the Bargello via the San Lorenzo market, which opens at 7 am. Beautiful things everywhere, the vegetables so fresh and plentiful, so much to see.

Arrive at the Bargello at about 8, too early, so go for a cappuccino at a little place close by. The man behind the counter had a classic sophisticated look: well-groomed dark hair and moustache, dark trousers, freshly-pressed white shirt, maybe a little sad looking. No other customers.

I watch as he opens a bottle of sparkling wine or champagne with a pop, puts another stopper in and puts it away again. A few minutes later, an older man comes in. They say a few brief words to each other in Italian and the waiter pours the man a drink from the bottle he had just opened, like he had been expecting him, which I imagine he had.

Finish my coffee and head to the Bargello. It had been a prison at one time, as well as a place of execution. You first walk into the courtyard where the gallows once were. I go straight into a room where Verrochio’s David stood all on his own. After years of improper cleaning and restoration, they think they have him back in his original finish: dark with beautiful highlights. Also he is no longer standing on Goliath’s head, but rather the head is off to one side as they believe it was meant to be. Not a very big work, but powerful. Sweet face.

The museum is not particularly well signed, so I decide to wander up a staircase and end up in a room with various carved ivories, and into another room filled with a mishmash of antiquities, jewellery, and paintings.

The next large room turns out to be the Donatello room. What will always make this my favourite place in Florence is my great fortune to be here by myself for what seemed like a long time. There was the original St. George from Orsanmichele looking off into the distance and the stone relief below. Then his St. John and his two Davids. Also the competition panels for the Baptistry doors by Ghiberti and Brunelleschi, more Donatellos, Della Robbias and Ghibertis.

So wonderful, and, for about 10 minutes, the beauty in this huge hall with its sleepy guard was miraculously all mine.

Finally, the doors swung open and in trooped a noisy tour, so I continue on to the Giambolgna loggia to see his amazing bird sculptures.

If I visited today I might snap a quick photo on my phone to capture the moment, but it lives only in my diary and in my head. The heavy quiet, the morning light through the windows, the hard floor. Donatello’s two Davids are especially clear: his early stiff marble giant-slayer, and the later sinuous, seductive bronze. My art history professor at Mt. A told us that the flirtatious pose of the bronze work clearly showed that David had seduced Goliath and then, when the giant was distracted by the youngster’s beauty, David cut his head off. The professor’s proof of this was that David is still holding the rock that the Bible says he hurled at Goliath to knock him out, not needing to use it at all to capture and defeat Goliath. Who knows? For a few minutes, it was all mine.


I remember the rainy early morning drive from my sister-in-law’s house in Ipswich to the Stansted airport for the cheap Ryanair flight to Pisa. I wasn’t giving any thought, as I would now, to climate change or my carbon footprint because that wasn’t at all part of travel for most of us then. All I was thinking was that I needed to make the most of that quick trip to Florence because I might never get another chance. Age and circumstances have made me more grateful for such luxuries of time and opportunity, but it was a rare conscious acknowledgement on the part of my younger self that I was about to do something to carefully imprint on my memory.

It was the last trip I made to Europe, though time will only tell if it will be my final trip; if it was, I am content. David was all mine for a few minutes.

Blanka and Anna

These two happy faces just caught my eye on the bottom of page 8 of the January 8, 1947 Charlottetown Guardian:

What happened to Blanka and Anna after this photo was taken? Did they ever know they were in the newspaper? Did they settle in Chicago? Where was Mr. Zwern?

In 1947 I would have just had to wonder about these two and move on, but in 2022 I can quickly fast forward this story:

  • Anna Zwern became Annie Birnbaum and donated family papers to the United States Holocaust Museum in 2019, including a clipping of this very same photo.
  • Blanka became known as Blanche and gave her testimony as a Holocaust survivor to the USC Shoah Foundation in 1996.
  • Blanche lived to be 89 and died in 2011, leaving behind Annie and her two siblings, her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Blanche’s husband of 50 years, Simon, predeceased her.

Born to a respected Jewish family in Krakow, Poland in 1922, she outwitted Nazi roundups through unflinching courage, intelligence, cunning and agility. Married to concentration camp survivor Simon shortly after the war, they immigrated to America with an infant daughter. Hope and love allowed her to leave her hatred and anger behind and begin to create a new life. She lived and taught deep wisdom to all around her, saying “as long as you have life, you have hope” and “to find happiness, take whatever hand you are dealt and make the best of it.” She turned her devastating hand into a beautiful, productive and love-filled family.

Obituary of Blanche Zwern, published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on November 28, 2011.


I’m glad I lingered for a few minutes with Blanka and Anna, if only to be reminded that hope is what propels us forward, and love can make all things possible.

Stoic Week 2021

Stoic Week starts tomorrow, Monday, October 18. I’ve been doing this annual program for quite a few years and it has been so helpful to me, especially in finding some emotional balance. I have a pretty easily triggered fight-or-flight response to conflict, and practicing Stoic principals has helped me find ways to step back when I feel threatened and see things from a more detached place. I’m still working on this, and in no way can I claim to be calm in the face of everything, but more and more I’m able to stay in my body and think things through, and this is in large part due to reading and thinking about Stoicism.

There’s still time to enrol in this free course, and this year they are offering a new program for students or those who are caring for or instructing young people. They have added more video and audio supports, which is helpful to people like me who are not strong readers. I have an especially busy week ahead, and there is a bit of a time commitment to doing the readings and exercises each day, but it will be worth finding the time for a Stoic reboot.

“Splash Mi’kmaq all over Epekwitk!”

Chief Darlene Bernard gave a powerful speech this afternoon to start the last day of the 20th annual Lennox Island First Nation mawi’omi (or pow wow). I wish I had a copy of her speech to share here, but the one theme that jumped out at me was her assertion that the Mi’kmaq language must become more widely used on Prince Edward Island if it is to survive.

Chief Bernard’s request to “splash Mi’kmaq all over Epekwitk” wasn’t just a direction to her people but to all Epekwitnewaq (residents of Epekwitk), including non-indigenous settlers like me. I suppose since non-indigenous people are the majority population on PEI, her direction was especially for us.

So, if you are a settler on Indigenous land, please consider learning and using a few words in the language of the first peoples of your region. If you own a business here on Prince Edward Island/Epekwitk, perhaps you could find a way to add Mi’kmaq to your signage or website.

If you are a PEI government official, it is time that the Mi’kmaq language is used more widely across PEI and not just in token, select settings. The Mi’kmaq people don’t have the power to change signage and usage, but you do.

It’s not difficult to start using Mi’kmaq. When we reopened our Prince County Hospital Auxiliary gift shop in the hospital lobby in June 2020 after closing due to the COVID-19 pandemic, I was asked to make some signs for the shop, including one to thank our customers. I asked if it could be in three languages – English, French and Mi’kmaq – and the other volunteers said that was fine, so this is what we installed:

At first a couple of people thought wela’lin was Chinese for thank you, and that’s understandable because this is all new. At least a few more people have seen and learned the Mi’kmaq word for thank you. Maybe it has made a few people think about why they are only seeing this word for the first time now when it should really have been everywhere forever.

This language learning is probably going to feel awkward to start. Chief Bernard said that we need to be kind to each other as we learn, that we will make mistakes, and that’s ok. The important thing is to try, and the awkwardness will eventually pass.

When elder Junior Peter-Paul gave a blessing in Mi’kmaq today, the only words I knew were wela’lin and wela’lioq (used to thank more than one person). He used them many times to thank the Creator. I know that saying wela’lioq to the Mi’kmaq people isn’t nearly enough, but it is a small start, and things can only get better from here.

Wela’lin. Thank you.

Nota bene

While looking for the postal abbreviation for the US state of Maine (it’s ME, so you don’t have to look!), I came across this chart from the United States Postal Service Historian that shows the different state abbreviations they’ve used since 1831. It wasn’t until 1963 that the USPS settled on the two letter system still in use today, and which we also use in Canada.

One interesting tidbit from that chart is this note about the abbreviation NB:

…in 1969, at the request of the Canadian postal administration, the abbreviation for Nebraska, originally NB, was changed to NE, to avoid confusion with New Brunswick in Canada.

My knowledge of Canada-US relations is not deep enough to know how often the United States has bent to our will (I suspect not often at all), but this certainly was a nice gesture.

Back to Life

It seems to be the day to visit your favourite coffee joint on PEI as Peter went to Receiver in the Big City while Steven and I visited Samuel’s in the Second City. We even nabbed the coveted table in the big corner window that has a good view up Water Street. My soy cappuccino was perfect.

Logo-a-go-go

I joined the Prince County Hospital Auxiliary in January 2019. I have been a member of the Stewart Memorial Healthcare Auxiliary since 2002, but since our hospital was converted to a long term care facility in 2014, we haven’t had as much to do and I felt I wanted support what is now our hospital.

Now I find myself the co-chair of the PCHA Wishing Well Gift Shop committee while one of our members recovers from an illness. As someone who is consciously trying to not buy anything unnecessary, being the head of a group who sell knick-knacks along with items to cheer inpatients is a peculiar place to be!

I am not going to be much hands-on assistance as I live 45 km from the hospital, and I’m probably not the person to make decisions on buying Chinese-made doodads, so I am helping with things like updating forms, making lists, and creating spreadsheets. One thing we hope to improve upon is the gift shop branding, so I went searching for logos.

I found various digital versions of our PCH Auxiliary logo, but most seemed to be ugly scans of letterhead. I asked the helpful and good natured Bevan Woodacre, PCH Foundation‘s communications officer, if he might happen to have a nice copy of our logo and I was soon gifted with the keys to the Dropbox kingdom! He had been collecting these for some time, and I’m so grateful to him for that foresight.

Ahhhh…so smooth, so nice!

The Wishing Well Gift Shop itself never seemed to have any branding except for the sign above the door. A label on the sign directed me to Marie Ford at the Sign Station in Summerside. I showed her a photo of the sign and asked her if she might still have our artwork. She cheerfully said she would have a look (and the database search took quite a while as they would probably have hundreds of thousands of files). By the time I arrived home, she had sent me a couple of versions of the logo.

Wishing Well Gift Shop logo

With PEI’s plastic shopping bag ban in place, the Wishing Well uses paper bags for purchases, if people request them. I hope to figure out how to get a rubber stamp to start bashing our logo on everything.

I was lucky to find these two helpful and organized people. Life really is all about weaving a web of connections, both online and off.